11 Questions to Help You Decide If You Should END a Relationship


Many people stay in relationships long past the expiry date. Maybe you’re afraid of dealing with the awkwardness of breaking up – or having to face the fact that you will be alone again. Or maybe you’re just not sure. Some things are working, but other parts are not.

It’s a tough position to be in. Not to mention how crazy making being stuck in indecision can make you.

I can’t tell you how many clients have hired me specifically to help them get clarity on this. For many, this is a huge, life-altering decision. When we’re so emotionally enmeshed in the relationship, it’s difficult to view our situation with a clear head.

In fact, I’ve had so many clients hire me to help them with this, I developed a process that includes a series of questions to support clients with gaining clarity and making the best decision possible for themselves.

So if this is your situation right now – or you just want to keep this article on file for the future, then read on for some questions I use with clients to help you decide if it’s time to leave a relationship.

Answering YES to even one of these questions is a sign it’s time to move on.


# 1: Am I staying because of great memories from the past – hoping we’ll get back there again?

# 2: Am I experiencing more pain rather than joy in this relationship?

# 3: Do I keep expecting this person to change (but they never do)?

# 4: Do they keep expecting me to change?

# 5: Am I continually justifying their actions even though it’s hurting me?

# 6: Do my partner’s hurtful actions keep repeating (even though I’ve addressed it)?

# 7: Do I feel like he/ she is putting no effort into the relationship?

# 8: Do our fundamental values clash? (ie; family, money etc…)

# 9: Has this relationship been holding me back from moving forward in other areas of my life for a long time?

# 10: Am I staying because I’m expecting things to get better?

# 11: Am I staying in this relationship out of habit (when deep down I know we don’t love each other anymore)

These questions helped, but maybe you’re feeling confused/ indecisive about other aspects of your love journey? If you are, and you know having expert support along with loving guidance would make all the difference, then let’s connect for a 1:1 chat!
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