Ask Kim: “How to stop repeating negative patterns”

Negative Patterns

Ask Kim: “How to stop repeating negative patterns” Question: “I seem to only be attracted to emotionally unavailable men who resist commitment. I date them then break it off because it’s unhealthy. How do I end this repeating pattern? “ – A.K, Vancouver BC Answer: Thanks for writing in A.K.! I know it’s SO frustrating [...]

“5 Signs it’s time to end your Relationship”

ending a relationship

“5 Signs it’s time to end your Relationship” In our heart of hearts, we always know when a relationship is ending. Sadly, people avoid and ignore the signs – staying in relationships long past their expiry date. Why? Breaking up is painful and people would rather delay dealing with it and avoid feeling the pain for as [...]

Ask Kim: “What Men are Attracted To”

what men are attracted to

Ask Kim: “What Men are Attracted To” Question: “I am a college professor with a Ph.D. I live in a less progressive area in which men are very threatened and intimidated by a woman with advanced education. I have been told that I can be intimidating. What am I doing wrong and how can I [...]

Ask Kim: “How to Mend a Broken Heart”

Question: I’m just out of a bad relationship and still miss him even though he was cold, cruel and a liar. I am 54 and too afraid to ever date again. What is wrong with me? – Lisa M. U.S.A Answer: Lisa, my heart goes out to you right now. Ending a relationship is never [...]

“How to Create Instant Chemistry with a Man”

When you meet someone you’re attracted to, the goal (and hope) is they will be equally attracted to you and everything works out like it does in the movies, yes? The reality for most women – especially if you’ve been out of the dating loop for awhile – is you get nervous, tongue tied or [...]

Is clutter holding you back from the love you want?

I was thinking about you today and wanted to share an important tip that is KEY to manifesting the love you want: To be able to manifest love, you MUST let go of those things that are energetic anchors to your PAST. As I’ve shared in many articles, everything is energy…and it’s true. We are [...]

The Difference Between Relating and Relationships

I’ve worked with many individuals over the years – students and clients alike – and one place I see people getting in their own way with relationships is when they put their relationships and dating life in a box. When you cling to a vision of what a relationship should look like, you become attached [...]

How To Take Your Relationship to The Next Level – in 5 SIMPLE Steps

Once you’ve been dating a man for a length of time, it’s only natural after a certain point to have a desire to transition from casually “dating” to a deeper level of commitment – the relationship stage. Sometimes this transition happens naturally – but when it doesn’t and you need to broach the subject with [...]

How to Overcome and Avoid Dating Rejection

There’s nothing that crushes your ego more then when a guy doesn’t ask you out again or he decides to end the relationship. Its one thing to be rejected when you apply for a job, entirely another when this occurs in your love life. The sting of rejection penetrates deeply because this is the one [...]

How to Become Queen of Your Own Heart

As solo business owner working from home, it’s easy for “cabin fever” to set in so I often jump at any opportunity to attend parties, network and be involved with the various women associations I belong to. I truly love doing this because it exposes me to a large and diverse group of women – [...]