Boost Your Dating Confidence Right Now!

What’s your confidence level in The Dating Game?

If you’ve been searching for the right guy for a while, you may get to a point where you’re attracting more “duds” than “studs”. This can really throw your own confidence off and make it very difficult for you to set and reach your love goals.

We all know that confidence is very attractive and when we feel low, our inner-critic just gets louder. This makes it even harder to get past our own limiting beliefs and find happiness in a relationship.

Your inner-critic tells you things like…

  • You’re not attractive enough to get the attention of a good man
  • You’re going to be alone for the rest of your life
  • There’s nobody out there for you
  • The good men are already taken
  • You’re too heavy, too skinny, too tall, too short… (you may have different negative self-talk but I’m sure you get the point!)

Well, before you throw in the towel on love, I want to share something very important with you.

God/ Universe/ Source would NOT give you the desire for a soulmate unless that person actually existed! Think about it. How unfair would it be to ignite this desire within you but then not provide the perfect SOUL-ution to go with it. It just doesn’t work that way!

Now, the real culprit that can get in the way of your soulmate success is when you stop trusting and start believing what your inner-critic is telling you. What you focus on expands. Keep your focus on doubt, fear, and limiting beliefs and more of that will show up.

You have to know the Universe works in perfect ways. It’s all about surrendering and trusting that no matter where you are in your love life, everything is happening because it’s furthering your growth and expansion.

I realize it can be incredibly difficult to shift when you’re stuck in the mucky-muck of limiting beliefs and doubting if your perfect partner will ever arrive. 

Well, today I’m going to help you change that! Keep reading for a great exercise to support you with moving through these lower-level energies with ease and grace.

 

TRUSTING EXERCISE:

STEP 1
Carve out some quiet time and, in three minutes or less, list as many items as you can that you wanted, imagined, or dreamed about having that you ended up receiving.

STEP 2
For the items you listed, recall the level of trust you had that you would get them. Describe how this trust felt. And, how you felt as you waited for these things to come or what you did that affirmed your trust that they would come.

STEP 3
Now, list as many items as you can that you want now. Which ones do you trust you will create or that will come to you?

STEP 4
Pick ONE thing from your list. What action could you take immediately to demonstrate your trust that you’re going to get it? (Maybe it’s doing something that worked when you had trust in the past or trying something completely new – you decide!)


 

I’m always saying, “How we do one thing is how we do everything”. So, activating the energy of what you want in your love life will ultimately have a ripple effect and begin to shift and heal other areas too (money/ career etc..) – so cool, yes?

Working through past hurt and being able to trust men again can be tough. But, this is soooo much easier (and faster) when you have an expert to hold your heart and your hand, gently guiding you back to an even better version of yourself.

I would LOVE to help you get back on track and excited again about meeting your perfect man in the New Year. Let’s connect for a quick chat so I can find out more about you and get a plan in place. Go ahead and apply HERE today.

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