The Shadow Side of People Pleasing

You’ve most likely have met her. She’s the woman who volunteers to make all the cookies for the school bake sale because she can see how busy everyone else is. She’s the faithful friend who will drive 12 hours to see you because she appreciates how valuable your time is. Your happiness, well-being and comfort […]

7 TRUTH Bombs About Love and The Independent Woman

I don’t know about you, but for years I believed men would be more attracted to me if I demonstrated how independent I was. My misguided and, as I later discovered, totally untrue belief drove me to be the most “hassle-free” kind of gal any man could be in a relationship with. I would immediately […]

Dating 101: Avoiding the Most Common Mistakes Women Make on Dates

I’m betting that you have taken some kind of classes or lessons to learn different skills in your life: piano lessons, driving classes, sports, photography… you name it and there’s some type of training for it. But what about dating lessons? Never heard of them, right? Well that’s all about to change for you! I […]

3 Steps to Discover if You’re Choosing Men Who are Just Like Your Father

Just like with our mothers, taking a hard look at the reality of the relationship with father can bring up old wounds. I encourage you to go through this at your own pace and really take the time to let it all soak in. In addition, please practice extreme self-care while on this journey, taking […]

5 Things You MUST to Attract Love

FACT: Everything you’ve learned throughout your life influences the way you attract love It’s true and I’m betting these old habits are hindering you from finding your one true love, aren’t they? It’s time to do something different and I’m here to help get you drive in the fast lane so you can attract your […]

How to Deal with Envy, Jealousy and Comparing Yourself to Others

At times, you have probably compared yourself to other women – their looks, lifestyle, and smarts are just a few characteristics that we use to score ourselves against – and that will cause us to feel “less than”. Marketing campaigns targeted at women have certainly capitalized on this to get us to buy certain products […]

A Simple Step-By-Step Guide for Setting and Keeping Boundaries – Part 2

Welcome Back, gorgeous! It’s been two weeks of honestly listening to yourself and paying attention to how well you establish and hold your boundaries in romantic relationships — how did you do? Just in case you missed the homework assignment, you can find it here so jump in and join us! I know it’s not […]

What We Can Learn from Brad and Angelina’s Breakup

I don’t know about you, but I certainly felt a collective gasp around the world when news broke that the Jolie-Pitt’s marriage was ending. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, to see the crumbling of a such a famous marriage can makes us nervous. If a couple that’s so gorgeous, successful and wealthy can’t […]

3 Tips to Help You Avoid Communication Breakdown

I am so loving a great series I came across: Halt & Catch Fire. The drama, set in the 1980s, tells the story of Compaq Computers and how the company cloned IBM to create an empire. I am not a tech gal by any stretch – and you’re probably wondering how this connects with communication […]

3 Easy Steps to Instantly Activate Your Feminine Energy

Recently a client asked me: “Kim, how can I communicate with the same feminine poise and grace that you do?” I’m always so touched when clients ask me this, and have immense compassion for them. Many of my clients hire me because they have quite a bit of masculine energy activated, and they’re feeling the […]